Internet Friendship and Dating Sites - Blessing or Curse?

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By Anamika S

Making Friends on the Internet

Internet Friends are those who have met and became friends online. They may or may not have met each other in reality. With the development of Technology internet friendships have changed significantly. The internet has revolutionized how we communicate with the rest of the world. It has taken the role that letters, newspapers, radios and televisions used to play and pushed it a step further. With facilities like emails, IM's, Voice Chat and Web cams developing relationships have become more and more easy. Internet is a wonderful way to develop new relationships, but it can be risky as well. More and more dating, marriage sites are appearing in the internet every day.

Dating Online - Pros and Cons

When making friends on the Internet one should not forget that there are chances of deception. Some people paint a very colorful picture of them and project themselves in a different manner than what they are in reality is with the intention of duping. So when you make relationships on the internet remember that all you know about the other person is what they have told you and they could be lying. Although the person you are chatting with may seem trustworthy, you never really know whom or what is at the other end of the conversation, so be aware. They may not necessarily look or sound or be like what they say they are and you may be disappointed. If you find someone on the Internet it is best to find out as much as you can about them and not give out too much personal information about yourself till some trust is established. I personally have met people suffering because of the consequences of hurtful internet affairs and sexual abuse.

On the other hand, Internet has made communication easy. Genuine and long-lasting friendships also can be developed over the internet based on mutual support and interests. There are several people who find solace and comfort in internet friends and share troubles and happiness with them openly. There have been many cases where relationships that began as online romances in dating or networking sites led to meetings and then long term relationships or even marriage. Thanks to the internet, I too have found some good friends whom I would not have got otherwise only because of the internet. Thanks to the Internet, it also has given money making options and good sites like HubPages.

Here is a Hub on Safe Online Dating tips.

Comments

ishwaryaa22 profile image

ishwaryaa22 Level 7 Commenter 5 months ago

Interesting Hub! Vote Up!

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sandylongman 21 months ago

Great hub! Yes and you never know whats behind the computer. Face to face contact is always best. You can see where they are as far as personality is concerned.

love back 2 years ago

"They may not necessarily look or sound or be like what they say they are"

This was the case for me for the most part. I met 3 women who were initially my online friends and all of them looked very different from how they described themselves online. Not only that, they even acted differently in real life. Maybe they also had the same opinions about me, but the point is that meeting people from online is a tricky thing. Thanks for the read, I thoroughly enjoyed it.

metro7 2 years ago

Well done sure there are two sides to the coin.over the time u can find out about the person & ladies sure sud be careful revealing too much it takes all kinds of people to make this world.i too have made so many gud frnds on the net.thxs for thr share anamika.good write.

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Earthscribe 2 years ago

Sound advice, good observations.

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compu-smart 3 years ago

Loved the article Anamika and great info for those people who are alone or find it hard to make friends in the real world. i have made Internet friends that i know i could trust and have been more kinder than my "real friends"

I did this hub about how to safetly chat in online chat rooms which will help keep people secure.

http://hubpages.com/_www/hub/10_top_tips_for_kids_

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Anamika S Hub Author 4 years ago

Thanks for all the comments. I too have to say that the internet has given me so many good friends from all over the World whom i would not have met otherwise.

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Craig Dewe 4 years ago

Nice hub Anamika,

I must say I have only had good experiences making friends over the Internet. I just hope it continues this way!

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pjdscott 4 years ago

Very nicely put. I agree - the internet can be great but you need to be cautious. I have met some truly wonderful friends via the web but it takes time to keep in touch with them! Thumbs up for a great hub.

aditya 4 years ago

Yes i am hundred percent agree with my friend anamika

Saurabh Gokhale 4 years ago

If it would not have been for the internet, we would not have been friends. So i count internet as a blessing.

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